One Year Anniversary!!

Hot Off The Dress is officially one year old today!

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the passage of time. This weekend, Miek and I traveled to beautiful Cohasset, MA to attend the wedding of one of my college friends. Even though it has been 5 years since Bates, everything fell right back into place. Dancing the night away, we might as well have been under the yellow sodium lights on the library terrace.

As my friends said their vows on the dock, with the Atlantic lapping at the shore, I thought about my parents home in Maine. They were married exactly 28 years ago! 28! What an accomplishment!

Below are a collection of photos to celebrate the blog’s one year anniversary, and to document the little snapshots of life in the midst of this great, big, passage of time.

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Unapologetic

Way back in September, Miek surprised me for my 26th birthday with tickets to see Rihanna in Boston — the show scheduled for March 10. We booked a quaint little Beacon Hill hotel through Jetsetter, and spent the next few months getting excited.

On our way down to the show last week, Miek got a weird 1-800 number call. It was Ticketmaster informing us of Rihanna’s “laryngitis” and need to cancel the Boston show. Slightly deflated <understatement>, we decided to keep driving and make the most of the weekend.

Despite dropping my debit card at the south-bound rest stop (and not realizing this fact until reaching into my wallet at a store on Newbury Street…), and mourning the canceled show, we still had a pretty fun time. A lesson for me in “going with the flow” and taking things as they come. When you’re with your best friend and it finally feels a smidgen like spring, few things can completely dampen spirits.

Some highlights:

1.) The snug Beacon Hill Hotel and Bistro. Gray-walled and archetypically “New England”, this hotel had class without being pretentious, comfortable rooms despite being small in footprint, and a world-class staff. The spunky blonde bartender gave us waters and sodas for free after an afternoon of walking the city, and the front-desk concierge stopped up late-night and fixed our Direct TV with a smile. Owned by an American and a Swede, the hotel is undeniably European. A nice departure from the “big box” hotels that pepper the city.

2.) Laughing at the ridiculously haughty and pompous worker at Levi’s. Look, I know you’re working on Newbury Street — the self-proclaimed “Rodeo Drive” of Boston — but come on, you’re hocking denim. The wardrobe workhorse. No matter how “museum quality meets boutique” you say they are, they are still jeans. And I found better ones for $10 at the Forever 21 down the street.

3.) Running through the chilly North End streets after dinner to pick up to-go cannoli at Modern Pastry. Miek lived in Boston during college, but had never been to this family-run Italian joint. It was well worth the wait.

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Crown Heights, BK

After bopping around Manhattan for a couple days enjoying the food (Eataly, DBGB Kitchen & Bar, Junior’s, Rickshaw Dumplings) and shopping (Uniqlo, Henri Bendel, FAO Schwarz), Miek and I took a cab across the bridge to visit Tig’s and Daniel’s new apartment in Crown Heights.

They whipped up a tasty brunch of parmesan and olive-oil-dressed arugula salad, jalapeno cheddar scones, poached eggs, oven-roasted tomatoes, apple pancakes (which tasted like flan!) and mimosas. We sat around, with Nymphadora Tonks the shih tzu underfoot, listening to tunes, eating, chatting, and celebrating their recent engagement! We went up to the roof to look at the skyline at dusk, had a savory and cozy dinner at Pok Pok (extreme and legit northern Thai cuisine), and then had Mr. Shah take us back to JFK.

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The Revere, Boston

Miek and I bombed down to Boston yesterday to see Frank Ocean at the Paradise. Thanks to SniqueAway we got great rates on a room at The Revere, a swanky spot near Boston Common.

A spacious room with a killer cityscape view from the concrete balcony, full-size toiletries (a long-haired girl’s dream), complimentary flutes of champagne upon check-in, and a great restaurant on-site (get the braised short rib stroganoff) made for a great experience.

Now… for some brunch and window shopping along Newbury Street — Boston’s Rodeo Drive.

xo Al

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Italia

I embarked on my first trip to Europe one misty morning last October. After consulting my best friend Brooke about the fashion of Italian women (she had spent a semester abroad in Florence during our junior year of college and said “Absolutely no pashminas. Italian women don’t wear them. No flip-flops. Leather is OK. But remember, less is more!”), I crammed a Diane von Furstenburg suitcase full of clothes and shoes, a couple Italian phrasebooks, and headed to Rome. I remember feeling buzzed with excitement the night before we left. The food! The art! The fashion! The history!

From the moment we were picked up by a handsome driver who gave us an informal tour of the city to when we packed up and said goodbye to the flamboyant front desk host at our cozy hotel, Rome did not disappoint. Although we both caught head colds from travel and jet-lag, nothing could have dulled what Miek and I were seeing. I am Catholic but have never been terribly “religious”. Over the years I have cobbled together the framework of my spiritual beliefs in a way that many of my generation have…distancing ourselves from the confines our parents and grandparents experienced. But the Vatican, and St. Peter’s Basilica, and the tiny, medieval churches we stumbled across during our afternoon walks, made me feel closer to a “higher power.”

The pasta was a religious experience too. I had the best espresso I have ever had. Dinner was an event.

As we rode the high-speed train through the Tuscan countryside on our way to Florence for the day, I was seated next to an Italian scholar. A professor perhaps, maybe a doctor. As he studied his journal article, I looked past him to the ancient stone farmhouses and rustic landscape. When we walked the Ponte Vecchio, I felt connected to the merchants who sold their wares there on the bridge hundreds of years ago.

I felt at home in Italy. I felt comfortable in the sunny piazzas, nibbling on a piece of bread with cheese, sipping a glass of the best “house red” ever.

Surrounded by art and history, I felt connected to humanity in a new and different way. I will go back.

Viva!

Miek and I returned from sunny Las Vegas yesterday. What a perfect trip.  Aria provided an excellent home base: the bed was like sleeping on a cloud, the tub was super deep, and we had a great view of the strip. We were celebrating our one-year, and it was magical. We saw the Cirque shows LOVE and Elvis, received much needed massages at the hotel’s spa, and tried lots of delicious meals and cocktails. We managed to have some adventures, take pictures with our Lomography cameras and Instaxes, and completely, totally unwind. (OH — and we went shopping. Expect a full post on that…)

More pictures to come, but here is a taste.

The view from our 20092:

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He loves me….

xo, Al